Have you ever been in a difficult situation and asked someone for their advice? Well depending on whom you ask things could go left or right. If you ask a “Debbie Downer” then you will only get a negative response, only pointing out the cons in the situation. But if you ask someone who has a positive mindset they will help you see both the pros and cons of the situation and help you make the best decision for yourself. So be careful who you reach out for support and leadership.