Patience, Patience! I know everyone believes they have patience at work, school and at home. We display self control in our daily functions. The patience I want to discuss is the worth of others. The level of control your thoughts and actions have towards someone else. Having the clarity to see a situation arise before it happens and deciding not to engage or to help out is patience. Maintaining that understanding is what we as people need towards each other. Patience is about total control over the moment.